Girls, you must know that there isn’t a definitive list of qualities that you’re able to find in that one guy. Really, they often fall in the category where they, only fulfil 4/5 of that list you have or sometimes, not even half the list. Sorry girls. Because at the end of the day, you’re going to fall in love with him even if he doesn’t possess those qualities.
And guys, not every girl you meet are like the ones that you see in movies – Love shopping, scared of any game that have a ball involved, aren’t afraid to get dirty and the list goes on. You are not defined by the criterias that the girls has set. Surely if a girl has set her sights on you and you just so happen to not like her back, let her down gently, or don’t lead her on. Girls aren’t toys or trophies. They dress up for you and not for others.
Isn’t what accepting each other is for? Love is blind, even if he/she or does the worst things, you’re still going to love them for who they are… Right?
Nevertheless, society has defined what love is. Like in Singapore, a guy must have the 5 Cs before they can get married. Cash, Credit Card, Condo, Car and Country Club Membership. Sure, it all sounds nice but they won’t satisfy you for long. I still wonder at times, do people get reminded of their wedding vows?
“I, ____, take you, ____, to be my lawfully wedded(husband/wife), to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part.“
I mean, you can’t live on love alone but, can we (at least) live in contentment?
It’s a scary world, I’ve been asked by my friends, “What do you look for in a guy?”. I really don’t know. As long as he loves me for who I am, I guess that’s the most important. It’s really that hard to find someone who would love all of me and my flaws. We’ve all been striving for perfection and let’s just say that we do attain perfection? We would look for more that’ll satisfy us.